Thursday, April 05, 2007
Ilula Guardians' Day 2007
"Our third guardian's day was great. We had over 450 visitors who visited our children. We were very happy because most of the children who were not visited last year were visited this time round.
Collins and Diana who are with the Kosgey family have never been visited during guardian's day. They have been visited only once since they came to Ilula. We waited for their guardians and when it was about 3 in the afternoon, we despaired. Thank God because at about 4 o'clock they arrived. The guardians were welcomed with mixed feelings by their children. Diana cried so much on seeing her guardians especially her grandmother. All the other relatives who
accompanied her grandmother started crying when they saw her crying. It was actually a sad and happy moment that though it had taken them long to come, they showed up at such a time where most children get to be visited.
Apollo was another child who cried most of the day because his grandparents didn't show up. We didn't understand why because they have been the first to arrive during guardian's day. We had someone to represent his guardians and he was happy at last. We will share more about the function when you'll be back just wanted to highlight a few things to you."
Sunday, April 01, 2007
Third Annual Guardians' Day
Unfortunately, I'm not yet home to cover the event. Someone had given the children's home a digital camera, so I hope to post some photos once I'm back in Ilula (right after Easter.)
For more on last year's event, click here.
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Sudan Orphanage Update
A team is going to Sudan in April and will bring back some pictures.
During the construction of the school, additional classrooms will also be built at the adjacent school.
Please join us in praying that the construction is completed before the rains return.
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Ilula Directors' Update | February 2007 (Exerpts)
- In January, there was a scare from Rift Valley Fever, a disease carried by cows. The government has things under control, but for safety, our children are still not given any beef.
New Vehicle
- A donor blessed us with the gift of a much-needed new vehicle for the children's home. The children sang songs of praise and dance with joy when the vehicle was donated.
Dairy and Kitchen Garden
- The dairy cow, Nokia, calved a healthy heifer that is giving us up to 25 litres of milk per day. Our children now drink 30 litres of milk per day.
- This month, we planted 6 varieties of banana trees as well as some avocado, orange and mango trees.
Visitors
- Michael and Emi visited us. This California couple took video clip and photos and did interviews with the children and staff.
- A team from a nearby orphanage came for a 2-day training on orphanage management and childcare. Their goal is to bring all their staff to our home for training.
- A nearby church group visited the children and brought two bags of maize. They talked to the children and prayed for them.
- We also had another group of visitors who are interested in starting an orphanage. They were impressed with the work God is doing in our midst and gave us a donation of Kshs. 2,000 for food to the kids.
- NewSong team visited from California. They had a great time with the kids and conducted training for the parents. We all appreciated their visit. The team brought mail from sponsors and took with them reply letters from the children to be mailed from the US office to individual sponsors.
- We've had trouble with the roof of the gazebo on the east side. It's been leaking, causing the East Wing families to have to eat in our kitchen. Supporters sent a gift to replace the roof. The children are excited to be back in their own gazebo for meals and devotions.
- The children recently took their mid-term exams--their first exam in their new grades. They all did very well.
- The older children have been assisting parents with conducting evening devotions and leading songs in Sunday school classes. Some are able to share from Scripture and encourage others.
- Men’s fellowship is on Tuesdays. The orphanage mom’s prayer group still meets on Mondays, while Bible study meetings with assistant parents are done on Tuesdays. God is moving and blessing staff as well as the children.
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Beautiful pictures of our kids
Photographers Michael and Emi Heddens recently visited Kenya and took breathtakingly beautiful pictures of our children.Visit their blog to see some of their photos.
The kids continue stealing visitors' hearts
We are going to miss their infectious laughter and precious little smiles. Each night, Daren has led them in a few songs that they have come to enjoy... "Noah's Ark" and "Waddley Acha". We wish you could share in their sheer glee, as they laugh hysterically at the goofy faces and animal noises. It is impossible to escape the grasp of them stealing our hearts.
Ilula has shown us the success that the children's homes are having in raising up intelligent, beautiful kids who will undoubtedly impact the future of Kenya. Each child has a their individual dream according to their giftings... some desire to become a pilot, a nurse, a doctor, an engineer, a farmer, a politician, or some other wonderful career. We are confident they will succeed in reaching their goals. Even the young ones seem to know what they want to do and are making tremendous strides in that direction.
Read more about the NewSong team's experience.
Monday, October 23, 2006
It's a boy!


Emmanuel Kimutai Kosgey was born around 10pm. Both he and Priscah are doing well. He weighs 4.1 kg (around 9lbs).
Victoria seems to love her new baby brother! Most of the girls in the Kosgey family seem to have made peace with the fact that it's a boy.
Emmuanuel Kimutai was brought home this evening, less than 24 hours since his birth. His sister Truphena explains that his Kalinjin name (Kimutai) means that "they thought he would come the next day and he came the next day." The kids were there to sing and welcome him home.
Everyone seems thrilled to know there's a new baby, though some still have interesting theories where babies come from.
Recently, I had to explain to the boys who sometimes take care of my chameleon that the chameleon keeps having babies (though they cannot live) because they overfeed her. (It really is a chameleon trait! It doesn't seem scientifically possible, but it is!) But then I had to explain that it doesn't work that way with people.... I thought, these boys are probably thinking that Priscah had a baby because she ate too much!
On that note,
Good night from Ilula
New Baby Coming
Sunday, October 15, 2006
On Life in Kenya - Kiki Honda | Intern
So I now have an impressive qualification to add to my resume: milking cows. I tried milking the cow at the children's home this past week. I must admit, the guy at the dairy was pretty impressed by milking abilities. haha. He said I just have to do it a couple more times and I'll be a professional. While I was milking the cow one of the fathers from the home happened upon us and said "Wow, Kiki. Now you are almost a real African. All you have to do is carry water on your head, wood on your back and a baby in front." But slaughtering a chicken was also added to the list. Needless to say, I don't think I'll ever be a real African.
Improving
My ability to speak Swahili is improving. I can now manage to tell people what I've done throughout the day. Nili conga viazi na kuta ngama alafu kucheza na Favor alafu kuta mboga. =) (I peeled potatoes and cut meat, then I played with Favor and then I cut veggietables)
In the Midst of Amazing Servants
ELI has opened up another children's home in the other village they do ministry in (Kipkaren). Recently, I was able to visit the new home with the directors and parents from the home in Ilula. It was a blessed day and it was cool to see the work going on in the new home. It's a really nice facility, too. At the end of the day, before we were about to leave, we had a short time of worship with the directors and the parents at the home in Kipkaren. Standing there singing "Asante sana, Yesu" (I thank you Jesus...) with these people brought me to tears. These people are amazing. People who have given up so much to bring happiness and a new life to children who have lost everything. When I think about the work these parents do I am constantly awed, inspired, blessed and touched. Standing in that room singing praises to God I realized, wow, I am in the midst of amazing servants. Yet through their songs of worship I was reminded that the reason why these parents are so amazing is because they work for, serve, love and honor an even more amazing God. I know it's only by the grace and work of God that they are able to do what they do, and I consider myself so blessed to have had the opportunity to serve and worship alongside such humble, loving, self-sacrifical, God-fearing people.
Be Still and Know that I am God
A couple of weekends ago, I was able to visit the Kakamega rainforest. It was so beautiful. the forest has over 400 different species of butterflies and even more specicies of birds. It was so peaceful to just sit and listen to the sounds surrounding me. It's like those tapes that help you fall asleep... you know like "The Sounds of the Rainforest," but it was real!
I was able to spend some time in quietness with God while there. I thought I'd read through a Psalm, and usually I'll read the pslam of what day it is. Being September 23rd, I didn't really want to read Psalm 23 because it kind of reminds me of funerals, so I doubled the date and read Psalm 46. But I know that was God leading me to the verse. It starts out about talking about how God is our strength and our refuge, and then goes on to say how the earth will fall and give way. I thought to myself, "Great... that's encouraging!" But then God spoke to me. Through this verse he reminded me that yes, the earth will give way, it will crumble and be destroyed, but God is everlasting. The beauty of the forest surrounding me can be cut down, burned up or destroyed, but the beauty for the Lord is forever. The peace I found in the forest can be disrupted and disturbed, but peace from the Lord is everlasting. And then, at the end of the psalm it read, "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations (America or Kenya), I will be exalted in the earth. The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress."
Be still and know that He is God. And as I sat there... silent... in the quietness of the forest... in maybe that same whisper that came to Isaiah... I heard God whisper to me... "Kiki... I am God."
Muddy Mishap on the Way to Blessings
This past week I was able to do some home visits. What a blessing! One home I visited was of a couple named William and Periz. They both work at the children's home, one in the kitchen and the other as an assistant parent. I've meet both of them during my past two trips to Kenya, but have never been able to visit them until this year. It was a blessing being able to talk with, encourage and pray for Periz. I always enjoy home visits and the ones I went on this past week were definitely a blessing.
Here's a funny story, though. John, the son of the director at the children's home, took me on a home visit on Wednesday. As we were walking we came upon this patch of the road that looked pretty muddy. As we approached, I saw that, yes, indeed, it was VERY muddy. John walked through the mud first and said where to step where the mud was drying, and thus more solid to walk on. Well, if you know me at all then you know that sometimes I don't have the best luck in situations like this. I took a couple of steps and about halfway through the muddy patch I stepped down where [I thought] it was safe... but to my horror I felt my foot slowly sink into the mud. My whole foot was COMPLETELY covered in mud. (I was wearing sandals) I was a little embarassed... but looking back I see the humor in the situation. John tried not to laugh at me and lightly commented "Hey... if you cover your whole body with mud then you'll look black like us!" haha... Oh well... just a small muddy mishap on the way to the blessing of a home visit. =)
Flexibility, Heat & Family
Within the first couple of days of arriving in Ilula, the children in grades 4 and 5 began telling me about a class trip they were going to be taking on October 6th, and throughout those 6 weeks it was constantly brought up. Everytime it was discussed, it was followed by, "Will you be coming with us?"
Finally, the day before the trip, the children asked me again if I was going to go and they said they really wanted me to go. So I talked to the director of the school about it but found out there was no room on the bus. When I told the kids they were sad, but said the would pray for me to go. The next day, the day of the trip, I was fetched at 7:45 and was informed that I would be going with them after all. I was given 10 minutes to get ready. Haha!
One thing I've learned as I've been able to go on missions trips is that it's important to be flexible. It was a fun day. We visited a city called Kisumu, the 3rd largest city in Kenya, and went to a museum. It was a 2 (or so?) hour bus ride, but it was cool because on the way we passed through all these tea, sugar and coffee plantations. The museum displayed a lot of traditional Luo (one of the tribes in Kenya) artifacts and had several animals. By American standards it probably isn't all that spectacular... but the blessing was being able to see the joy and excitement in the faces of the kids. It was HOT, though.
After the museum we visited Lake Victoria, the largest lake in Africa. It was very peaceful there and the salty breezes reminded me of home. =) The journey was fun, but the best part of the trip was being able to experience it with the children.
That night when we got home, all the younger kids were so excited to welcome their older brothers and sisters home. They served them dinner, and I was blessed by their eager, serving hearts to serve their siblings. After dinner, all the kids crowded around in a circle on benches inside the gazebo to talk about the day. The kids who went on the trip shared their excited highlights from their journey. One girl, Cicilia, who didn't go on the trip, talked about how in devotions Dennis, age 3 and one of the youngest in the family, had been dancing while they were singing. So all the kids started singing loudly, encouraging Dennis to dance. At first, he just looked around at all the children encircling him... and then suddenly... he started to bounce. His bouncing then moved down to his feet and he danced around in little circles in the middle of all the children. In that moment came a realization. I looked into the smiling joyful, loving faces of all the children, all eyes on little Dennis dancing, and then I truly saw it. '
Wow, this truly is a family. These children come from different places and different tribes. They've lost their parents, and with that so much hope and promise. But God by His amazing grace and mercy has specially chosen each child and brought them to this place... not only to live... but to become a family. With this realization... and looking into the beautiful, joyful eyes of the children... I found tears welling up in my own. I love these children so much... my heart is filled with so much joy just being with them.... but in that moment I was reminded that there is Someone who loves them so much greater that we can comprehend.
Saturday, September 30, 2006
From NYC to Kenya and Back - Thoughts on being an intern in Kenya
by Christy Thomas
How could I have known what to expect of a country halfway around the world? How could I imagine the sights, smells and tastes of a place so far removed from everything I knew?
I departed in that state of not knowing what was coming my way. The best images I could conjure up in my mind were vast desert expanses and wide-eyed starving children that haunt us from infomercials.
Because I was entering such an expanse of mystery I thought I also couldn’t have expectations. Au contraire! I quickly discovered I had quite a few expectations that had rooted themselves deep in me and made adjusting a little stickier than I anticipated.
First of all, I expected to fall in love with Kenya immediately. When this didn’t happen (and was far from what my heart was feeling) I couldn’t help but get frustrated with myself and begin to question everything that I had initially thought would come out of the trip. Often it was just plain difficult, uncomfortable and vulnerable to maneuver culture and this new world that I was immersed in.
Second, I had created such resentment inside of me towards American Culture that I naively forgot how all cultures have their strengths and weaknesses. I am grateful that I had the chance to see tangibly that we in the west aren’t necessarily always better off or privileged, nor is American culture always wrong/right.
Thirdly, I expected to immediately connect with the children and also the Kenyan staff. But, it wasn’t and never is about my timing, and it took much longer than I expected to find a way to those children that was real and truthful, as well as to other staff and interns.
Yet, in spite of the parts that were difficult and trying, and often caused me to wonder how I would survive my three months there, I discovered a place that I fit: a place where I could offer of myself and receive from those around me, especially from the mothers of the children’s home and the oldest girls. I discovered that Ilula could be “home” to me in its own unique way.
Back in New York City, my mind is recurrently flooded with images from my time in Kenya. Instead of the wide-eyed starving child I picture the children that I got to know intimately.
I hear their laughter, see the mischief and joy in their eyes, and remember the energy that they infected me with. And somewhere, deep inside me I hope that spirit of Life is one of the many marks that Kenya left on me.
I also cannot escape the wonder that the Kenyans’ lives inspired inside of me. I think specifically of the parents that awake before dawn to begin a day that has basically been the same for the past two years. They get some variety, but for the most part, the same chores, challenges, and long hours await them each morning. Nevertheless, they never failed to greet me with a broad smile and firm handshake, emanating their gratefulness to be alive and healthy. Their lives testified of a firm grasp on a joy much larger than they—and to this day, weeks after leaving Kenya, it continues to challenge me and bring me to my knees in prayer.
What would it look like for me to approach my long days of school here in New York City with that kind of spirit?
I know it would start with grace.
Being back I’m constantly wondering what God really did with my heart while I was there in Kenya. I’m left wondering where this life adventure will lead me and how the varied pieces of my life and self fit into a beautifully purposed mosaic crafted by God. I thought I’d have more clear answers, but currently I feel that there are simply more layers. But they are rich layers with much to soak up and discover.
In the meantime, I smile picturing those precious children. I know they are learning to love and be loved; learning to trust that the Lord is bigger than all their pasts, and living amidst laughter and security.
In short, they are living out a testimony of hope for the lost and seemingly forgotten; they are preparing (whether they realize it or not) for a future to be used in MIGHTY ways for His glory and they are grateful. I hope somehow that you can travel there. That you might one day feel their hands holding yours, their tender touch stroking your skin, that you could hear their laughter surround you, and catch their mischievous gaze across the gazebo.
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Monday, September 18, 2006
Mile Two in a Marathon
The children sang and danced. Various people shared. (Brian shared that running a children's home isn't a sprint. It's a marathon. And we're just at the second mile marker.) I think, though, that the one story that was never really shared spoke the loudest: the story of Thomas Lishudi.
One of our staff members noticed Thomas herding cattle. He looks different, is obviously from the Turkana tribe. She enquired and found that the young boy was an orphan. He had absolutely no relatives that anyone knew of. She arranged for him to be brought to the home.
Today, when the Ruto family got up to share some songs and verses, Lishudi stepped forward and did a dramatized version of a long passage in the Bible. "My son!..." he'd say, (though it was hard to make out the rest of the passage due to his strong accent). "My son!" again and again... Truly, Lishudi has come to know what it is to be God's son. In Christ, he has found a family, a home, a community that loves and encourages him.But his story is not the only one of hope. There are many others. Ninety others, in fact. Among those is the story of Hillary and Sharon, the first two kids who moved into our home. Two weeks ago, their baby brother, Dennis, was finally brought to live with them. When their mom passed away and their older siblings started caring for them, little Dennis was just a year old--too young to be brought to Ilula. But two weeks ago, he was finally brought to live with them, and today, Dennis was dedicated to the Lord.
Thank you to each of you who have invested in the lives of these children.
Click on the first picture to see more photos from today.
Tuesday, August 01, 2006
More, and more, and more
Read about yesterday's intake on Adele's blog.
Karibu nyumbani! (Welcome home!)
I was privileged to be a part once again of the journey to pick these dear ones up and will write more about it tomorrow as well as upload pictures.
What strikes me time and again, however, is how the relatives/neighbors who had been taken care of the children don't hug them to say good-bye, nor shows much emotion in their leaving. (Granted, one aunt seemed concerned and told one boy "We WILL come to visit," while two friends at different homes cried their little lungs out because they, too, wanted to come with us...)
Though hugging and showing affection isn't part of this culture, I love that when these children arrive at their new home, there's a whole line-up of people who tell them how excited they are to have them and who introduce them to the world of hugs. Even kids who have been there for only a few weeks are blossoming! It's amazing what love can do!
Thursday, July 27, 2006
The power of motherly love
What sweet hearts these children have.
I am encouraged that these children that were once forgotten, abandoned and mistreated have been showered with love from their supporters, the staff here in Ilula, the visiting teams and interns, and even their brothers and sisters. Even more amazing to me is the selfless love that these parents daily heap on these children.
I think of one mother in particular who adopted an older boy who was extremely rough. Life had dealt him a sequence of circumstances that some adults couldn’t even fathom, and for him it was all before he reached the age of 9. To name a bit of his story, he was orphaned, adopted and immediately abandoned, adopted again, mistreated and left to fend for himself on the streets. I’m told that when he first arrived here he was a tough kid and more often than not was just plain mean. I guess it only makes sense that he had built such a hard exterior in an effort to protect himself. He was causing some trouble and resisting anyone’s attempt to break the walls he had built, but one mother with hope in her heart and a plan of unconditional love decided she was willing to take him on.
Tears come to my eyes now as I reflect on this. As I am not yet a parent, I can only imagine the unconditional love required of a parent when a child is in a pit and seems utterly unlovable. The wisdom they have to know those are the moments when the child is most in need of the very thing he is pushing away takes my breath away. Of course, this is but a trace of what God has modeled for us – finding us again and again in the moments when we are furthest from Him and most unworthy of His care. And in spite of that reality and the evidence that testifies against us, he scoops us up and welcomes us back to himself, with celebration and rejoicing.
I have lived here for two months now and am amazed at how this young boy has softened even in that short amount of time.
Oh, the testimony of powerful and relentless love.
Oh, the courage of this mother, and all the other mothers that this testimony.
Oh, the joy, the hope, and the love found in a simple unashamed smile shared between a mother and her adopted son who may still be rough on the edges but is unquestionably becoming a new boy with the capacity to love and be loved.
Oh the pride of this mother in a boy that many have cast aside but whom she decided to treasure, cherish and believe in.
If only you could hear her constant praise and declaration of her love for him.
“And he that sat upon the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” Revelation 21:5
~ Christy Thomas, Intern
Tuesday, July 25, 2006
Christmas art
We have some fine ten- and eleven-year-old artists here in Ilula, so be on the lookout for their world class work coming soon!
~ Christy Thomas, Intern
Thursday, July 20, 2006
On basketball and going-away parties
Just as a team member and I carried out the watermelon, the kids were returning from school. They were decked out in their school PE uniforms and appeared ready to play (though I’m not sure they knew exactly what they were going to play).
The father of a visiting Whalen Family team began warming up the children. Imagine 90 children doing arm circles, push ups, jumping jacks etc in front of this basketball court with a pink ribbon tied from goal to goal. It was quite a sight. Once they were warm they sat down and awaited the opening of this new basketball court – a project of Jared Kreutzer (a summer intern).
Samuel Teimuge, the director of the Training Center, ran the ceremony alongside of Jared. They began with the story of the making of the court. Much had gone into the whole thing and it took quite a lot of persistence from Jared and other Kenyan staff here in Ilula. Next, one of the training center staff named Josiah did some karate. I’m not sure the kids have ever seen anything like that – there was all kinds of oohing and aahhing. And. if you watched the sidelines for the remainder of the afternoon you could see the kids imitating the moves he had performed.
The ribbon was cut, the rules explained and the first team selected. One backboard is the Kenyan flag and the other the American flag – it seems that it will forever be Kenya vs. America. :) Understandably, the Americans (though out of shape and struggling because of the high altitude here) “killed” the Kenyan team. But I am happy to report that each day after school there are two teams, America and Kenya, playing each other and learning day by day how to perfect their dribbles, passes and shots. They should be more than ready by the next team’s visit.
Besides the addition of basketball into these children’s days they also spent many hours last week perfecting their football (soccer) skills with the visiting team the Whalen Family. Things were a little confusing as they adapted to new and stricter rules, but by the end of the week I’d say we had our own Ilula World Cup :)
You can imagine with all this physical activity that these children would be eating a lot! And how thankful they are for the treats they get when interns, like Jared, Rachel and myself, leave. As a special evening they make a special meal including soda and chapati (a Kenyan staple similar to tortillas) for the children. These kids know its coming and its a welcome break from the routine meals they have day after day, week after week. They even keep track of how many good-bye services the west and east sides have had respectively. I think currently the east side is winning :)
~ Christy Thomas, Intern
Friday, July 14, 2006
On sewing, ballet moves, and a soulpatch
The first name I sewed was a bit crooked and couldn’t compare to the ones I’d seen so I asked one of the older girls to show me how they do it. She began this fancy stitch and it looked great. “Ok, I thought, I can do what she just did.” Now keep in mind that while I’m trying to perfect this new stitch I have 2 girls climbing on me, playing with my hair and arms, and pulling the sweater to the angle where they can best see. (Because, of course, the observer has priority over the actual sewer!)
The night continued with me attempting to improve amidst children getting out homework and bombarding me with questions. And all the while I’m thinking I’m so thankful for the playful spirit and laughter in this particular girl’s hut; it’s a hut of sincere joy that infects me whenever I spend time there.
A little while later Jared, another intern, entered to say hello. The girls don’t see too much of him and they immediately were overflowing with questions. Picture a 22-year-old guy trying to explain a “soulpatch” (patch of hair below your lip) to 12 girls under the age of 11 that don’t speak English all that well. I couldn’t help but laugh!
The night ended with me girding up my skirt to show them some ballet steps. I forget how completely foreign it is for them to imagine much less see dance. For us, little girls have images in their heads from when they’re very small, but for these girls, dance equals the motions you do while singing worship songs.
How odd to think that the place I call home (New York City) and the art form I pour most of my time into is a reality that these Kenyans cannot begin to fathom.
I wonder what the world holds that I cannot begin to imagine . . .
~Christy Thomas, Intern
Friday, July 07, 2006
It's 9pm, and the kids are sleeping in their new homes for the first time...
After lunch and a tour of their new home, the children played soccer with a visiting team from Nuevo, California. Tonight, they had devotions, dinner (a second full meal in one day? another new thing to many of them!) and visits with their new families.
For more information on the events of today, read Adele's blog.
Thursday, July 06, 2006
Final Countdown
Will you please pray for these precious kids, to be able to understand that their guardians aren't rejecting them, but doing what is best for them? Please also pray for the new parents as well as all of the children's home staff to be sensitive to God's leading in helping each of these precious ones adjust?
We covet your prayers.
Friday, June 30, 2006
Update on Kipkaren Children's Home
Please continue to pray for us during these extremely busy days in Kipkaren, especially as the team prepares for the arrival of the children.

